Showing posts with label Child abuse. Show all posts
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8 Alarming Signs for Parents: Molester’s Pattern on Child Abuse

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An abuser or molester is expected to be very witty not to utilize force to his potential victims.  Instead, he might choose to entice a kid little by little.  Child molesters are excellent in disguising themselves. For concerned parents, it’s difficult to pin point adults who may pose a danger to your kid.  So here’s the molester’s pattern on child abuse, and every parent should be cautious about these:


1.  A molester starts off by choosing his target, mostly a kid who looks vulnerable and believing.  Therefore, the child is easy to manage. 


2.  Next, he starts showing the child a special time and attention. He also can win the child’s parents and their trust.  Molesters are usually trained to honestly be interested in the child as well as the family.


3.  Over time, the molester begins planning the child for abuse.  Gradually, he becomes more physically attached to the child: he displays innocent-looking affection, tickling, or playful wrestling. 


4.  The molester may give gifts and start to isolate the child from his siblings, peers, or parents just to have time with the kid alone.  There will be times he will ask the child not to reveal some secrets to anyone especially to parents—probably the gift or some plans to go outside.  Such move sets the stage for making seduction.  


5.  After winning the trust of the child as well as the parents, the molester is well prepared to go on with his pursuit.  Once again, the molester could be subtle only about this, instead of being forceful or violent.


6.  He may likely exploit the kid’s innate curiosity on sex, offering himself as an educator, or even suggesting a special play to do together.  The molester may attempt to show the child some adult materials making such attitude to look normal.


7.  When the molester becomes successful in doing this, he becomes excited to make sure the child won’t tell to anybody about this.  He may employ various tactics such as blame, blackmail, threats, or even a combination of these. 


8.  The molester may tell to the child: “It’s your own fault.  You did not want me to stop.”  He may continue: “If you report to your parents, they will call a police and put me behind bars.” Or he may also tell: “This is a secret between you and me.  Nobody will believe if you tell about it.”  “If your parents will know it, I will harm them.”  There’s no end actually to the deceitful strategies those molesters will do to the poor child.


Sexual abuse on child remains one of the greatest damaging and deceptive problems.  Parents need to be protective on their children about molesters.  It must be their top priority to give security to children.  These tips on molester’s pattern on child abuse will give advance warnings for parents.


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Child Abuse: Understanding Types of Child Abuse and How to Avoid Them

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Child abuse is failing or doing something that could result to injury or harm to a child.

An abuser is someone who fails to take care of a child, bodily injures the child, or communicates sexually with the child.
What are the types of child abuse?

  • Emotional 
  • Physical 
  • Neglect
  • Sexual 
Emotional child abuse:
Emotional abuse is the most harmful type of child abuse. Emotional abuse is an action, behavior or failure to do something that upsets the child’s social development or mental health.
This type can come from a verbally simple insult to a severe type of punishment.  This is found together with the other forms of child abuse.
Emotional abuse stays for a longer time.  It has more psychiatric negative effects than sexual or physical abuse. As a result, emotional abuse is practically the same as verbal abuse, mental abuse, or psychological abuse.
Instances for emotional abuse always include fault finding, humiliation, labeling, branding, showing disrespect, or any action that hurts the self-esteem of the child.

Physical child abuse:
Physical child abuse is an act that results to injury done through physical violence. Some bases acts of injury include hitting, burning, pushing, punching, shaking, cigarettes burning, kicking, scalding water, beating or other form of physical hurting.  Some signs showing physical abuse include repetitive injuries, bruises, burns, head injuries, illness, frequent crying, fatigue, bite marks and fear of people.

Neglect:
Neglect is also a common form of child abuse. Most children of today experience more neglect than sexual or physical abuse. Symptoms of neglect are failure to provide the child’s basic needs, physical hunger, and clothes not appropriate to weather.

There are 3 forms of neglect: physical, emotional, and educational neglect.
  • Educational neglect is the inability to supply necessary schooling.
  • Physical neglect is the inability of parents to provide food, clothing, and proper health care.
  • Emotional neglect is the inability to provide unconditional love, emotional needs and psychological care.
Sexual child abuse:
Sexual child abuse is a traumatic experience of children. It involves physical acts between the child and the adult.  Warning signs of sexual abuse include difficulty in sitting or walking, genital pain, extreme hostility, seductiveness, troubles in sleeping or eating, frequent crying, feeling lonely, avoiding interactions with others.

How to prevent child abuse?
  • Discipline the child but do not spank. Avoid disciplining if you are anger or out of control.
  • Guard your child against sexual matters on the net.
  • Be warned when someone displays greater interest in the child.
  • Adults, parents must be caring and loving towards their children.
  • Establishing preventive services such as activities on public education, programs on family support, and seminars on parental education.
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